Sunday, February 07, 2010

WHEN YOU MISS SOMEONE SPECIAL...

Have you ever missed someone and felt terrible?
Missing someone is a terrible but at the same time, A sweet feeling.
You will be sitting around wondering if you meant anything to him/her.
Thinking if he/she ever cares about you.
Rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her.
Sitting in front of the television but thinking of him, missing the final episode of your favorite show.
Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time you were out together, talking about everything, your dreams,plans,future.
Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online, when u realize that he/she isn't online...

“Spending sleepless nights engrossed in those thoughts
Looking at sky sparkled with stars
Would he be thinking of me while watching the stars?
Thinking of those dreams that’s lost in this hour”


When you miss someone, don't push yourself to forget him. You miss him, that's natural. He/She was a part of your life. Of course you miss the times that you were with him. So, save the moments you have when you see him/her. Never push yourself to do stuff you don't want to do. You will just add more burden and pain to yourself. Let the feeling pass naturally. It would be better to let the feeling go away than hurt yourself intentionally just to forget him/her or to get over missing him/her.

Also, you should not pretend that everything is just fine even when it's not. You should not act that you can deal with it easily. You will be lying to the people around you and you will be lying to yourself. If you miss him/her, admit it to yourself. You can even admit it to him/her that you miss him/her; you won't lose anything once you tell him/her. You wouldn’t know he/she might be missing you too. Then you can have time again for each other to bond, to patch things up or to even try to bring back old times.

It’s so hard to recover from the pain of missing someone who was too intimate & vanished after deeply hurting you. Put into your mind that the person was a part of your life. He/She has made a great impact in your life, made you happy, made you smile during hard times & accompanied you when you were lonely. So, be thankful for that. He/She also, in a way, helped mould you into the person you are right now.

"When i smelled the perfume you wore,
I am reminded of u..
When the radio played the song we loved to listen to ,
I am reminded of u..
When i had a too beautiful dream about you and woke up in the middle of the night at where
I am reminded that .. i will never see you again."

‘Never long for anyone from the past. There is a reason why they never made it to your future.’

Source: Inspiration

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